Fun Summer Activities To Do Together or With Their Friends for the Self Confident Parent - Part 1

"I'm bored!" "I have nothing to do!" "What should I dobirthdays, is to buy store bought cookie dough, in the
now?"refrigerated section. I usually take a chocolate chip
Are these some of the things you are hearing or havecookie dough and a sugar cookie dough, and press
heard from your child or children this summer? Arethem down on to two pizza baking sheet. I spread the
you running out of things to do? Here are some funcookie dough to the edges of the baking sheet until it
activities that you can do with your kids. You can evenlooks like a pizza. Then bake it. After it is cooled, I have
have your kids invite friends and do these activitiesmy child spread the frosting of their choice and then
together.decorate it with different colored sprinkles and colored
But first, here is something to think about. A girlfriend oficing (from the store and in the ready make tubes). He
mine had a very good suggestion that will prevent yourhas a blast. We then add candles to it. Another great
child from complaining about being bored. She sendsidea, is to buy fancy molds. I have, for in-stance, the
them to the refrigerator and taped to the door is a listfootball stadium Nordicware mold. After the cake it
of chores that she has written down for them to do,baked, they like to sprinkle different colored sprinkles in
when they complain that they are bored. Needless tothe inside of the stadium to look like fans in the
say, her children never complain about being bored.stadium.
As a self confident parent, if you are looking for some3) Create memory books. You can buy inexpensive or
things that are actually fun to do, here are a couple ofexpensive photo albums. You can give each child their
great activities or ideas:own or share a book and make a family album. Next
1) Do a craft project together. This is one of myhave your child cut out their favorite pictures from
favorites when my kids were younger. You can buy amagazines or give them copies of their favorite
craft kit or make up your own project, if you arephotos. Use acid-free glue, double stick tape, or special
crafty. One of the projects my kids liked to do was todouble sided photo stickers to stick the pictures on to
cut out paper snowflakes. Another one was to figuretheir books. Then decorate the pages with acid-free
out different ways to fold airplanes and find out whichstickers, markers, stamped images, or cut outs.
way flew the best. We would also paint wooden cutAnother great idea is to make dream journals or
outs (that I had purchased from a craft store), forwishing boards. You cut out things that they want,
instance, gingerbread men during the holidays. Therefrom weekly ads or magazines, and paste them onto
are all sorts of kits that you can buy from a crafta poster board. You can have them cut out pictures
store, like Michael's Arts and Crafts or JoAnn's Fabricof people that they want to be, for instance, a singer, a
store. Another very simple idea, that I used to do whendancer, a football or basketball player, a golfer, a
we had a play group and it was my turn to host, wasdoctor, etc. or cut out pictures of their dream house,
to take a walk. We would pick up leaves, flowers, etc.etc. They can cut out places that they would like to
We then bring them back and paste them on a pagevisit. The possibilities are endless. Or you can make a
to make a picture. We have also bought the kit tobook with a spiral bound notebook and decorate the
make permanent plates, cups, and bowls. After youcover or buy a notebook binder and decorate the
order the kit, have your child draw a picture (or if theycover. Then have your child write down their favorite
are very young, you can write their name, date, andjokes poems, or memories. You can even copy the
trace their hand) with their markers on a special piecejokes or poems and then cut and paste them into their
of paper. You then send it back to the company whobooks. You can make autograph books. You take a
will mail it back with their artwork on a plate or bowl.book and dec-orate it. You then have their friends or
(For pictures on a cup, the picture is inserted after it isrelatives write little notes to them or you can start
drawn and is not sent in.) In fact, to this day, we stillwriting little notes to them on a weekly or daily basis.
use those plates for our meals.You can write down your wishes, dreams, or special
2) Bake cookies or a cake. My kids loved to help mememories of them down.
stir the dough and then when the cookies were doneAnyway, these are just a couple of fun activities that
baking, they got to frost and decorate them withyou and your child or children can do with you or their
sprinkles. A fun thing to do is to make up a story aboutfriends that will help foster their self confidence and
your decorated cookie before you could eat it.yours as a self con-fident parent. Have fun!! Have a
Another great idea, which I usually use at my children'sgreat summer!