How to Communicate with Your Favorite Introvert

Introverts are great listeners, readers and writers. Theit in writing even if you have to go out of your way to
Internet was invented just for introverts! The only thingfind an excuse for writing it! Don't expect an immediate
they dont do well -- and this is a big one -- is verbalresponse. Give them plenty of time to think about it. If
communication.possible, wait until they bring it up themselves even if it
Most introverts dislike talking and even have a violenttakes a week.
aversion to small talk. Approach these peopleNow that eMail exists, take advantage of this
respectfully and come to the point as quickly asopportunity to send emails to your favorite introvert!
possible. If you can, let them know a few hours or aThey will appreciate it more than you can imagine.
day in advance that you would like to talk to them.If an introvert writes something to you rather than
Don't expect them to answer the phone. That's right.saying it, don't be insulted. This is their preferred means
Don't be insulted if you get an answering machine.of communicating.
Introverts are not rude or reclusive, they just hate toIntroverts are excellent listeners. They really take the
be caught unprepared.time to tune in and they aren't just using the spaces as
Above all else, if the door is closed, don't go in. Anda way to frame their next comment about
don't knock if you can come back some other time.themselves! Most introverts will not interrupt or rush an
Introverts can be downright violent if they areanswer. Don't assume because they are quiet, that
interrupted. Their speciality is weaving informationthey agree with you. This is a serious error. If it's
together in a contemplative and creative manner. Ifimportant, ask them point blank what they are thinking.
you interrupt this process, you annoy then vexaciouslyThen be prepared to wait as long as it takes for an
while at the same time aborting the results of thisanswer (sometimes a day or two). Wait patiently and
inquiry which might have been to your business andpolitely. This is called giving someone else "space".
personal advantage.Good luck getting the best out of the introverts on
If you want to get your point across to an introvert, putyour personal team, be it business or personal!